Kuyini ukuzidela? Leli gama lingavame ukuzwakala ku-TV, ngenkulumo evamile futhi litholakala kwi-Intanethi. Kepha akuwona wonke umuntu owaziyo ukuthi kusho ukuthini leli gama.
Kulesi sihloko sizokutshela ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuzidela nokuthi kungaziphi izinhlobo.
Ngubani i-altruist
I-Altruism yisifiso sokusiza abanye abantu nokunakekela inhlalakahle yabo ngaphandle kokufuna noma yini ukubuyiselwa. Ngakho-ke, i-altruist ngumuntu okulungele ukudela izifiso zakhe ukuze kusizakale abanye abantu.
Okuphambene ngokuphelele nokuzidela yi-egoism, lapho umuntu ekhathalela okuhle kwakhe kuphela. Kumele uqaphele ukuthi ukuzidela kungazibonakalisa ezindaweni ezahlukahlukene.
Izinhlobo zokuzidela
- Okwabazali - lapho abazali bezinakekela ngokuphelele izingane zabo, futhi bangadela konke ngenxa yenhlalakahle yabo.
- Mutual uhlobo lokuzidela lapho umuntu esiza omunye umuntu kuphela lapho eqiniseke ngokuqinile ukuthi uzomsiza ezimeni ezifanayo.
- Ukuziphatha - lapho umuntu ethola injabulo yangempela ngokwazi ukuthi usize othile futhi wajabulisa abanye. Isibonelo, lesi sigaba sifaka amavolontiya noma ama-philanthropists.
- Okuboniswayo - uhlobo "lokukhohlisa" lokuzidela, lapho umuntu enza okuhle hhayi ngokuyalelwa yinhliziyo yakhe, kepha ngenxa yomuzwa wesibopho, inzuzo noma i-PR.
- Ukuba nozwelo - le nguqulo yokuzidela ibhekisa kulabo bantu abangenasithakazelo ekusizeni abanye, ngoba ngokwengqondo bazibeka endaweni yabo, bamele bonke ubunzima besimo sabo. Ngamazwi alula, abakwazi ukungazinaki amashwa omunye umuntu.
Kubalulekile ukuthi wazi ukuthi isimilo sokuzidela sinezici ezingezinhle futhi. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi kaningi kunezinambuzane eziqala ukuxhaphaza abantu abangenalusizo, bezinakekela kalula futhi bengazizwa bephoqelekile kubo.
