Izinkulumo ezi-6 abantu akufanele bazisho eminyakeni engama-50, ingaba wusizo kuwe lapho usebenzelana nabantu asebekhulile nabadala. Abaningi abazi nokuthi eminye imishwana "yabantu abadala" ingacasula kangakanani.
Sikulethela ukunaka imishwana eyisi-6 okufanele uyigweme lapho uxhumana nabantu abalele uphawu lweminyaka engama-50.
"Awusekho kuleyo minyaka futhi"
Imvamisa le nkulumo ikhulunywa kubantu asebekhulile lapho bekhetha izindlela zokuzijabulisa "zobusha". Noma kunjalo, inhlonipho kufanele ikhonjiswe esizukulwaneni esidala, ngaphandle kokuthi emehlweni ethu izenzo zabo zingabonakala njengokungajwayelekile ngandlela thile.
Eqinisweni, namuhla akukho ukuzijabulisa okungalungela noma yiliphi iqembu leminyaka ethile. Isibonelo, eminyakeni eyishumi eyedlule, indoda endala ephethe umakhalekhukhwini ingamangaza isizukulwane esisha, kanti namuhla cishe bonke abantu abangaphezu kweminyaka engama-50 banamaselula.
"Kuzoba nzima kuwe ukuthola lokhu."
Njengoba bekhula, abantu abaningi baya behamba kancane. Abahlali bekwazi ukuthola amakhono athile ngokushesha njengabantu abasha.
Kodwa-ke, ukuzwa ibinzana elifana naleli kuzokwenza kube nzima kakhulu kubantu abaseminyakeni yabo-50 ukufinyelela inhloso yabo. Futhi kwabaningi bazo kuzwakala njengenhlamba. Kungcono ukusho into efana nokuthi: "Lokhu akulula kangako ukukuthola, kodwa ngicabanga ukuthi uzophumelela nakanjani."
"Imibono yakho iphelelwe yisikhathi"
Akukhona ukuthi umuntu uyakhula okwenza ukuba imibono ngempilo iphelelwe yisikhathi. Lokhu kuncike kakhulu ekuhambeni kwentuthuko yomphakathi, imvelo yezepolitiki, ubuchwepheshe kanye nezinye izinto eziningi.
Nsuku zonke okuthile kuyeka ukusebenza. Ngemuva kwakho konke, lokho okubonakala kwesimanje kithina namuhla kamuva kuzobhekwa njengokungenakuguqulwa. Ngakho-ke, kufanele ugweme ibinzana elenziwe, elingafanele lishiwo kubantu abaneminyaka engaphezu kwengu-50 ubudala.
"Ngazi kangcono"
Ukusho kommeleli wesizukulwane esidala ibinzana elithi "Ngazi kangcono", lo muntu uthuka isithunzi somuntu osekhulile osebenzisana naye. Empeleni, wehlisa iseluleko nokuhlangenwe nakho abantu abakwiminyaka yawo-50 abaziqhenya ngakho.
"Okweminyaka yakho ..."
Umusho owethulwe ungasebenza njengokudumisa insizwa, ngaleyo ndlela uyiqhathanise nochwepheshe. Kodwa-ke, kubantu besigaba sabadala, amagama anjalo azocasula.
Ngakho-ke, wenza i-interlocutor ihluke ngokungalindelekile kweminye imithetho ovame ukuzisungulela yona.
"Awukwazi ukuqonda"
Kaningi, ufaka emshweni onjalo incazelo engenangozi: "imibono yethu ayihambelani." Kodwa-ke, umuntu ongaphezu kweminyaka engama-50 angawabona ngokuhlukile amagama akho.
Angacabanga ukuthi unamandla amancane ngokwengqondo kunawe. Kwesinye isikhathi, uke umbeke endaweni yakhe, ngaleyo ndlela ukhombise ukungahloniphi.
