Uthando luyakwazi ukuvela empilweni yomuntu ngokungazelelwe futhi luyibambe ngokuphelele. Lo muzwa unezimfihlo eziningi. Amaqiniso athakazelisayo ngothando lwabesifazane awabalulekile nakancane, ngoba abesifazane bathanda ngokwehlukile kunabesilisa. Izinhlobo ezahlukahlukene zothando zenzeka ngendlela yazo, ngakho-ke zinezici zazo. Amaqiniso ngothando azokusiza uqonde okungabhalwanga ezincwadini.
1. Igama "uthando" elihunyushwe lisuselwa esiGrekini sakudala lisho "isifiso".
2. Uphawu lothando luy rose, kuye ngombala walo, ungadlulisa ukubonakaliswa okuhlukahlukene kwemizwa yakho.
3. Lapho umuntu ehlangana nomunye wakhe obalulekile, imijikelezo ye-neural yobuchopho iyacindezelwa, ngakho-ke isinqumo esenziwe kungenzeka singalungile.
4. Ngesikhathi sokuthandana, ingxenye ephezulu yobuchopho igcwele i-dopamine, umphumela ofanayo uvela lapho usebenzisa i-cocaine.
5. Indoda esothandweni ihlale ifuna ukudla amaswidi, imvamisa ushokoledi.
6. Amadoda aseYurophu asezingeni elincane akhetha abathandekayo babo okhalweni olugqame ngokucacile.
7. "Umthambo wothando" utholakala emunweni wendandatho, ngakho-ke, indandatho yomshado ifakwa kuyo.
8. Isidoda sinikela emuzwa wothando nothando, njengoba iqukethe i-dopamine.
9. Uphawu lothando - ICupid isho inhlanganisela yezothando nesifiso; obizwa nangokuthi i-Eros.
10. Ihhabhula ligcina ukubukeka kwalo isikhathi eside ngemuva kokukhiwa. Ngalesi sizathu, amaGrikhi asendulo ayekholelwa ukuthi uthando lungavezwa ngalesi sithelo.
11. Ngenxa yama-anti-depressants, izinga lemizwa yothando lehla.
12. Ngokocwaningo, kwaziwa ukuthi umbhangqwana ohlangane ngesikhathi sesimo esinamandla unamandla kunalowo okwenzeka kuye e-cafe.
13. Izazi eziningi zokusebenza kwengqondo zithi sithandana nomuntu ofana nomunye wabazali bethu.
14. Izimfihlo zobudlelwano zihlala zandisa ukuheha komunye wakho obalulekile.
15. Isikhathi sinomthelela omkhulu othandweni.
16. Imvamisa, labo abangakufuni nakancane bathandana.
17. Amantombazane akhangwa kakhulu ngabafana abanesimo esicacile nesifiso, kanye nalabo abade kunabo.
18. Uma abesilisa bethandana, ukubona okubonakalayo kuyasebenza, kwabesifazane, ingxenye yobuchopho obhekele inkumbulo isebenza kakhulu.
19. Iqabunga le-maple liwuphawu lothando eChina, laqoshwa phambilini emibhedeni yabantu abasanda kushada.
20. UPlato wayekholelwa ukuthi ngaphambi kokuba umuntu abe nemilenze nezingalo ezine, futhi uNkulunkulu wamhlukanisa kabili. Ngakho-ke, lapho uhlangana nomphefumulo wakhe, umuntu uzizwa ejabule futhi ephelele.
21. Isandulela sothando esibaluleke kunazo zonke, ngokusho kososayensi, ukubuka.
22. Ngokombono wezinto eziphilayo, isifiso sothando sithathwa njengesidala njengokudla ukudla.
23. Ezizweni eziningi, amantombazane athumela umyalezo kubathandekayo babo ovela kumafindo axhunyiwe.
24. Uma inqubo yokuqomisana iqhubeka isikhathi eside, aba maningi amathuba okuba umshado uphumelele.
25. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uthando luyashiya ebudlelwaneni.
26. Uthando alusona isiqinisekiso somshado ophumelelayo. Lokhu kuthonywa yizinto eziningi, kufaka phakathi iminyaka yabantu abashadile.
27. Ubudlelwano buthathwa njengobuphumelela kakhulu lapho owesilisa emncane kunalowo amkhethile.
28. Ezothando azihlali isikhathi esingaphezu konyaka, njengoba ubuchopho abukwazi ukuba sesimeni esifanayo isikhathi eside.
29. Abesifazane bathanda ukuxhumana kakhulu nomlingani eduze.
30. Amadoda avame ukufuna amantombazane ukuze athole ubudlelwano obukhulu.
31. Amantombazane mancane amathuba okuthi athole amaphutha ngesimilo somlingani wabo kunamadoda. Uma ubulili obulungile bubekelwe ubudlelwano obubucayi nobesikhathi eside, lapho-ke bazobheka amaphutha kwesinye isigamu sabo.
Emhlabeni jikelele, isehlukaniso sivame ukwenzeka ngonyaka wesihlanu emva komshado.
33. Ngemuva kweminyaka eyisishiyagalombili sihlala ndawonye, ukuzinza kuza ebudlelwaneni.
34. Ukugcina imizwa yothando, abacwaningi bancoma ukulalela amazwi ophathina.
35. Inkomba yothando ukusondelana. Ngalesi sizathu, osebenza nabo bavame ukuthandana, njengoba besondelene.
36. Ososayensi bathole ukuthi ithuba lokwenza ubudlelwano esidlangalaleni, lithuthukisa imizwa yabalingani.
37. Ngesikhathi sothando, umuntu uzilungele izenzo eziyingozi.
38. Bangu-38% abantu emhlabeni abangasoze bajabula emshadweni futhi abangayitholi i-soul mate yabo.
39. Ngesikhathi sokuhlukana nomuntu omthandayo, udinga ukudlala imidlalo. Ngasikhathi sinye, izinga le-dopamine lizokuwa, ukuphelelwa yithemba kokuhlukana kuzophela ukucindezela.
40. Amadoda amaningi awawethuli amantombazane awo kubangani bawo, kanti, futhi, wonke amantombazane azisa abalingani bawo kubangani bawo.
41. Amadoda anamazinga aphezulu e-testosterone ashada kaningi.
42. Ngokwenhlolovo, abalingani bavame ukukopela omunye wabo obalulekile nomngani / intombi yabo ethandekayo.
43. Ukuxabana phakathi kwezithandwa kuvame ukwenzeka ngenxa yokungathembani.
44. Ngesikhathi sokuthandana, kukhuphuka izinga lamahomoni kumuntu, okwenza kuvele umuzwa wesikhwele.
45. Wonke umuntu wesibili othandweni uthatha umlingani wakhe njengempahla.
46. Ngemuva komshado, zonke izithandani zesithathu ziqala ukuhlangabezana nenkinga ebudlelwaneni, imvamisa lokhu kuhlotshaniswa nokuzalwa kwengane.
47. Abesilisa babaluleke kakhulu ebudlelwaneni kunabesifazane.
48. Uma umlingani ebuka umphefumulo wakhe, abafundi bayanwebeka.
49. Akukho ukulinganisela othandweni, njalo omunye wabalingani uthanda kakhulu.
50. Amadoda ahehayo akhetha "ama-simpleton" njengamakhosikazi awo, angenazo izingqinamba eceleni.
51. Amadoda athandana nokubonakala kwentombazane, abesifazane bayakwazisa umhlaba wangaphakathi.
52. Umfana angathandana emizuzwini embalwa, intombazane izothatha isikhathi esithe xaxa.
53. Ukuthinta okungajwayelekile kuthuthukisa ubudlelwano bezothando.
54. Imvamisa, ukuze kugcinwe ubudlelwane, umuntu ufuna ukukhohliswa okudlulayo noma ucansi ohlangothini.
55. Uthando ngasikhathi sinye lwenza umuntu ajabule futhi adabuke kakhulu.
56. Kaningi, ubudlelwane obuhle buyakhula kubantu abashadile lapho izinga lemfundo lilingana.
57. Ukudumala othandweni kwenzeka lapho kudlula isikhathi sothando.
58. Isivivinyo esinzima kakhulu kwabasanda kushada ukuzalwa kwengane yabo yokuqala.
59. Amandla okuthanda asuselwa ekhonweni lobungani.
60. Abantu abasemshadweni bazizwa benokuzethemba okukhulu empilweni.
61. Abafundi abashadile abakhathazeki kangako ngaphambi kokuhlolwa.
62. Emshadweni, akulula ukufika embonweni ofanayo, kulula kakhulu ukufeza ubunye bezocansi.
63. Isidingo esikhulu sowesifazane ngesikhathi sobudlelwano ukumnakekela.
64. Umuzwa wothando awudluli eminyakeni emithathu.
65. Kubalulekile ukuthi owesilisa ezwe ukuthi umuntu wesifazane uyamethemba.
66. Indoda esothandweni iqala ukuzwa ukuncika kumlingani wayo womphefumulo.
67. Okuqukethwe yi-serotonin "kubulala" umuzwa wothando.
68. Ukwehlukahluka nokuvezwa kwemizwa okungajwayelekile kwenza uthando luqine.
69. Isikhathi esiningi amadoda aveza ubudlelwano bawo kunamantombazane.
70. Isimo sokuba sothandweni sinomthelela ekudambiseni umzimba wonke.
71. Uma behlangana nabalingani babo bomphefumulo, ama-43% abantu baba novalo.
72. Abantu, bebuka izithombe zenjabulo yothando, baqala ukukhombisa ukuheha okunamandla.
73. Abesifazane besizwe sakwaTiwi bashada ngokushesha lapho bezalwa.
74. Ososayensi bakhiqize inzwa yothando, eNgilandi noma imuphi umbhangqwana ungafika uzohlola imizwa yawo.
75. Abesifazane abaningi bakhetha ukuthi indoda ingabatsheli ngothando lwayo, uma ingekho esimeni sobudlelwano obude.
76. Umbono weMathematics uthi umuntu kumele ahlangane nothando lweshumi nambili ukuze athole owakwakhe umphefumulo.
77. Intshebe yendoda ikhula ngokushesha uma isesimeni sokukhathazeka.
78. Akuvamile ukuthi ubudlelwano bobungani bukhule bube ukuthandana, kepha kulokhu kuzoba ubuhlobo obude.
79. Abesilisa abanga amantombazane abo ekuseni baphila isikhathi eside.
80. Umuntu osothandweni uhlela enye ingxenye yakhe.
81. Imvamisa abalingani ebudlelwaneni baba "yizimpumputhe" ezenzweni zenye ingxenye yabo.
82. IKama Sutra yasekuqaleni iqukethe kuphela u-20% wezenzo zocansi, okunye bekuzinikele emndenini nasekuziphatheni okuyikho kwempilo.
83. Ngesikhathi sokuqala kwezothando kuvela umuzwa wenjabulo.
84. Imizuzu emine yisikhathi esanele sokuqonda ukuthi ngabe bungaba khona yini ubuhlobo nomuntu.
85. Umuntu othandana naye unezindawo eziyi-12 zobuchopho kakhulu.
86. Uma abathandi bebukana iso, izinhliziyo zabo ziqala ukushaya ngazwi linye.
87. Ukugona kubhekwa njengesidakamizwa sokuqeda izinhlungu zemvelo.
88. Uma ubheka isithombe nomuntu omthandayo ngemuva kokuhlukana, kuvela ubuhlungu bomzimba.
89. Abantu ababhekelana njengabahle nabangajwayelekile bahlala ndawonye kuze kuphele iminyaka yabo.
90. Imibhangqwana lapho abalingani banezintshisakalo ezifanayo ngokuvamile ihlukana ngenxa yesithukuthezi.
91. Abathandi bangaqhathaniswa nabantu abagulayo okutholakala ukuthi bane-mental disorder OCD.
92. Imicabango ngocansi, ezothando nothando inomphumela omuhle kwezobuciko.
93. Into esemqoka ebudlelwaneni ukungathembani, kepha ukunamathela kwabalingani.
94. Lapho bekhetha umlingani womphefumulo, babheka ubuso, hhayi isimo.
95. Ukuze ususe ukucindezeleka nokudangala, udinga ukubamba othandekayo ngesandla.
96. Uthando luvame ukudala ukuqhuma kwe-adrenaline.
97. Ukuphela kwento enengqondo emhlabeni wonke uthando.
98. Umuntu uzizwa ejabule futhi angacabangi lutho uma enye ingxenye iseduze.
99. Ukukhulunywa ngothando kuthinta ukucabanga okungaqondakali, wonke umuntu unesithombe sothandekayo enkumbulweni yakhe.
100. Izithandani zivame ukuhlukana ngenxa yokunikeza umphefumulo othandana naye lezo zimfanelo angenazo.
101. Amadoda aseBali ayecabanga ukuthi owesifazane uzozwa uthando ngabo uma ondliwa ngamaqabunga akhethekile lapho kuvezwa khona umthondo kaNkulunkulu.
102. Ososayensi bakufakazisile ukuthi abantu bayakwazi ukuthandana cishe izikhathi eziyi-7 ngaphambi kokushada.
103. Kunabantu abangakaze babone umuzwa wothando.
104. Amasiko amaningi asebenzisa amafindo njengezimpawu zothando.
105. Ukuthandana akuveli ngokushesha. Ngenkathi uhlangana nomuntu, uzwelo lungavela, okuyimizuzu yokuqala engu-4.
106. Izithandani ezithandanayo kuzoshaya izinhliziyo zazo zivumelane.
107. Uma owesilisa enaka kuphela isibalo sentombazane ayithandayo, khona-ke usuke efuna "uthando olulula".
108. Uthando luthulisa imizwa nomphefumulo.
109. Ingoma yothando edume kakhulu yabhalwa eminyakeni engama-4000 eyedlule.
110. Uthando luphila iminyaka emithathu kuphela.
111. U-Andreas Bartelm ukufakazele ukuthi uthando aluboni, ngoba umuntu othandweni unezindawo zobuchopho "ezilele".
112. Umuntu onebhadi ngothando aqale abhekane nolaka abese ecindezelekile.
113. Uthando lubhekwa njengomlutha onamandla kunayo yonke.
114. Njengama-maniacs, abantu abathola imizwa yothando bathola ukusabela kwamakhemikhali.
115. Abesilisa bathanda ngamehlo kuphela.
116. EVirginia, akuvunyelwe ukwenza uthando ngokukhanya kwesibani noma isibani.
117. Kusuka kusiSanskrit, igama "uthando" lihunyushwa ngokuthi "isifiso".
118. Kaningi, imishado yothando iqala ngesikhathi sokudla kwasemini ngenxa yenkomishi yekhofi.
119. Iqabunga le-maple lithathwa njengophawu lothando lwaseJapan nolwamaShayina.
120. Uthando uthando olufanayo noludala.
121. Ukuqabula okude kothando kuthathe amahora angama-31 imizuzu engama-30 nemizuzwana engama-30.
122. Umuzwa wothando kwabathandanayo uyanda lapho omunye wabalingani ezwa ngokukhashelwa.
123. Izithukuthuku bezilokhu ziyingxenye yomuthi wokuthakatha uthando.
124. AmaJapan aqhamuke nobhodisi ovela kuphela uma unemizwa yangempela.
125. Othandweni, bobabili abesifazane nabesilisa bakhuphula kakhulu amazinga e-testosterone.
126. Izimpawu zesifo sokucindezela ngokweqile ziyefana nezothando.
127. Uthando olungathandeki lungezinye zezimbangela zokuzibulala.
128. Abamele ubulili obuqinile imvamisa kuba ngabokuqala ukumenyezelwa ngothando.
129. Uthando luyaphazamisa ekubukeni umhlaba usangulukile.
130. Odokotela baseMayo Clinic sebekhombe isimo somuntu esenza ukuthi kungathandeki.
131. Owesifazane uqala ukuzwa uthando lapho bebukwa emehlweni abo.
132. Inhloko yaseMontezuma yathatha ngokuthi kunomuthi wothando emhlabeni. Lokho izinkomishi ezingama-50 zoshokoledi oshisayo ngosuku.
133. Uma umuntu efuna ukuzijabulisa, uvame ukuzwa umuzwa wothando.
134. Ngokuxuba amakhambi afana ne-mint, i-meadowsweet ne-marjoram, ungavusa uthando.
135. Abantu bajwayele ukuzwa uthando lweqiniso kanye kuphela ngaphambi komshado.
136. Uma umuntu ethanda, khona-ke ukudla kubonakala kumnandi kuye.
137. Ngothando, kuvela "izimvemvane esiswini". Futhi leli qiniso lifakazelwa ngokwesayensi.
138. Ngemuva kokuphela kothando lomzwelo, kungena uthando oluphelele.
139. Abesilisa bathandana kaningi kakhulu kunabesifazane.
140. Ikhono lokuqeda ubudlelwano nokuqeda uthando likhuluma ngekhono lokuba ngabangane nokubambisana.
141. Uma owesilisa nowesifazane behlangana esimweni esingesihle, khona-ke banethuba eliphakeme kakhulu lokuthandana.
142. Bonke abantu bazifela ngothando.
143. Uthando ekuqaleni kokubona lukhona.
144. Ukuxhumana njalo nokuthinta kwandisa amathuba okuthandana.
145. Abantu abaningi bayaluphika uthando, kanti empeleni kunesifo lapho umuntu engayiboni imizwa yakhe.
Inkanuko nothando kungenza kusebenze izingxenye ezahlukahlukene zobuchopho.
147. Noma uthando lungahambisani, luyamjabulisa umuntu.
148. I-United States of America ihlela ukudala ikhambi lothando.
149. Umuthi wothando wangempela kakhulu ujusi wehalananda. Kuvusa ugqozi nokuheha.
150. Uthando nobudlelwano akufani.
151. Ngokwezilinganiso zomzimba, uthando lungafana ne-neurosis.
152. Uthando aluwaboni amaphutha.
153. Enkolweni, uthando lubhekwa njengamandla asendle futhi avele ahehe ngokocansi.
154. Ngokuka-Aristotle, uthando lubheka ubungani njengenhloso yalo, hhayi ucansi.
155. Uthando aluyona inhloso, kepha luyinqubo yokuthi umuntu azi omunye umuntu.
156. Uthando luyisehluleki ngesikhathi.
Ukwesaba ukuthandana kubizwa ngokuthi yi-phylophobia.
158. Ukuhlukana kungaqinisa uthando.
159. Abesifazane bathanda ngezindlebe zabo futhi lokhu kufakazelwe ngongoti bezengqondo.
160. Abesilisa bathanda ubuso obuhle ngaphezu komzimba omuhle.
161. Umuzwa wothando unciphisa umkhiqizo.
162. Ngesikhathi sokubonakala kothando empilweni yomuntu, abangane abambalwa balahlekile kumbuthano wakhe womphakathi.
163. Kusukela ngekhulu le-18, kuye kwavela imishado yothando, ithatha indawo yemishado ehleliwe.
164. Ukwenza uthando njalo kuvuselela iminyaka eyi-7.
165. Imvamisa, izakhamizi zaseGrisi zenza uthando.
166. Abesilisa bathanda abesifazane abafana nabo.
167. Inhliziyo ibhekwa njengophawu olwamukelwa ngokujwayelekile lothando.
168. E-Detroit, akuvunyelwe ukuthi izithandani zithandane emotweni.
169. Isidoda naso sinesandla ekubonakaleni kothando. Kukhona i-hormone yothando esidunjini sowesilisa.
170. Iwayini belilokhu lithathwa njengesiphuzo sothando esibaluleke kunazo zonke.
171. Thanda ubudlelwano emsebenzini kuphela ezimweni ezi-4 kwezingu-10 eziphela emshadweni.
172. ELondon, akuvunyelwe ukwenza uthando ngesithuthuthu esipakiwe.
173. Uthando lukaPlato lwafika kithi luvela eGrisi lasendulo.
174. Izimvemvane zothando eFrance zizwakala "njengezintwala zomphakathi".
