Kuyini ukucindezeleka? Namuhla, leli gama lingazwakala kakhulu phakathi kwabantu naku-TV, futhi litholakala kwi-Intanethi nakwizincwadi. Kepha yini efihliwe ngaphansi kwaleli gama?
Kulesi sihloko sizokutshela ukuthi yini ukucindezeleka nokuthi kungaziveza ngaziphi izindlela.
Kusho ukuthini ukucindezeleka
Ukudana kwengqondo ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo lapho isimo somuntu siwohloka khona futhi nekhono lokujabulela impilo ngezinhlobo zalo ezahlukahlukene liyalahleka.
Izimpawu eziyinhloko zokucindezeleka yilezi:
- ukuzenyeza;
- imizwa yecala engenasisekelo;
- ukungabi nathemba;
- ukuwohloka kokuhlushwa;
- ukukhothama;
- ukuphazamiseka kokulala nokulahlekelwa isifiso sokudla;
- Ukuthambekela kokuzibulala.
Ukudangala kuyisifo esivame kakhulu ukwelashwa kwengqondo, naso eselaphekayo. Kusukela namhlanje, zitholakala kubantu ababalelwa ezigidini ezingama-300 emhlabeni jikelele.
Ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kungesinye sezizathu eziyinhloko ezicindezela abantu ukuthi bazibulale. Kulesi simo, umuntu uzama ukugwema ukuxhumana nabantu, futhi futhi akanandaba nakho konke okwenzeka eduze kwakhe.
Kokubili ukucabanga nokunyakaza komuntu kuvinjelwa futhi kungahambelani. Ngasikhathi sinye, intshisekelo ilahleka kokubili kwezocansi nasekuxhumaneni nabobulili obuhlukile ngokujwayelekile.
Izimbangela nezinhlobo zezimo ezicindezelayo
Kwezinye izimo, ukucindezeleka kungavunyelwa, isibonelo, lapho othandekayo elahlekile noma ukugula okungathi sína kuvela.
Ukudana komoya kungadalwa futhi yizifo ezithile zomzimba noma imiphumela emibi yemithi ethile. Kubalulekile ukuthi wazi ukuthi udokotela oqeqeshiwe kuphela ongahlola ukucindezeleka, futhi anikeze ukwelashwa okufanele.
Njengoba umuntu ngamunye kungumuntu ngamunye, izinto ezahlukahlukene nazo zingaba izimbangela zesimo sokucindezeleka. Kwabanye, kwanele ukuwela ekuphelelweni ithemba kusuka ekuxabaneni nomngane osondelene naye, kanti kwabanye, izinhlekelele, impi, ukushaya, ukudlwengula, njll kungaba isizathu.
Abesifazane abaningi babhekana nokudangala kwangemva kokubeletha. Lokhu kwenzeka ngemuva kokubona ukuthi ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane, indlela yabo yokuphila ishintsha ngokuphelele.
Ngakho-ke, ukuze ususe ukucindezeleka, kufanele nakanjani ubonane nodokotela, futhi ungazami ukunqoba lesi sifo uwedwa. Ngosizo lwezivivinyo ezikhethekile, udokotela uzokwazi ukwenza ukuxilongwa okulungile futhi asize isiguli silulame.
Isibonelo, uchwepheshe angabeka isiguli imithi efanelekile, noma, ngakolunye uhlangothi, anikeze amaseshini nodokotela wezifo zengqondo.
